We’ve arrived at that time of year when we steep ourselves in old traditions that matter and create new ones that add to our joy. It’s a wonderful blend of deliberately reaching into the past and marrying it to a future we want to experience: it is creativity in its finest form.
So much of what we do right now seems to hold more meaning. Whether we attribute it to the bright lights and decorations, the sounds of the season, or our beliefs and customs, we can say that the spirit of the holiday season puts a spring in our emotional step as we put others at the top of our mind and giving lists.
The culmination of all of our extra effort at this time of year is highlighted when we are gathered around the table in celebration of the season and of each other. So after all the shopping, planning and preparing is done, do you know what each and every one gathered at your holiday table really wants?
Love.
It’s true! Now more than ever! Because at the most fundamental level we all want to be seen, to be heard, to be witnessed, to be appreciated … to be loved. Each of us is looking for meaning and significance. We all want to know we matter and we often look for it to be reflected back to us by others and one way we can find a measure of fulfillment is by giving that gift to another.
So in addition to the beautiful gifts, tasty treats and lavish meals that are also demonstrations of love, here are a few more ideas of what you can bring to the holiday table to make this year more unique and memorable:
Recognition & Compliments
Everyone wants to be noticed and acknowledged for what makes them special, even in the moment.
Heart-to-Heart Conversations
A little one-on-one time and attention discussing meaningful topics can make a world of difference.
Understanding & Patience
Most people are doing the best they can with what they know and have; a little support goes a long way.
Complaint & Judgment-Free Discussions
We are tough enough on ourselves with our internal narrative; let this negative habit around others go.
A Hug or Two
Remember, appropriate and consensual human touch is the most healing energy on the planet.
During this season of togetherness, live into the truth that what you say and do really matters. While we are a hardy lot, there are times when a little awareness, sensitivity and tolerance goes a long way. That time certainly is now.
So bring even more compassion, tenderness and appreciation to your holiday table this year. Serve up a little more love. Just like you, those celebrating the season with you will be so glad you did!
